Photo by Susan Vittitow Mark
In June, I found myself in Ohio with my siblings, dividing up my late parents’ possessions. It’s amazing to me how much stuff accumulates -- things that only held value because they held meaning for the person who owned them. There were plastic statues of the Virgin Mary, broken rosaries, plastic Christmas plates and homemade ornaments. Once home with the box that had been pre-packed for me, I discovered that someone had saved my hair in a photo envelope when it was first cut short between 2nd and 3rd grades -- a gesture I found both sweet and slightly disturbing when I pulled it out. It mattered to someone.
Which brings me to my writing prompt. I love prompts that involve a physical item, because I believe it jogs different synapses in the brain. I also like something where even if I am bringing the prompt, I will still be surprised. (If I have only a written prompt, I have to fight the urge to pre-write in my head before I meet up with my group.)
For this prompt, each member of the writing group should bring a box of some sort -- preferably a decorative box. Something with about the same interior size as a cigar box or a little smaller is good. Now fill it with odds and ends such oddball jewelry, ticket stubs, small toys, knick-knacks, souvenirs and any other items that catch your fancy. A fairly random assortment is good. It’s okay to put in things you value since you’ll get your box back in the end. Thrift stores are a great source for both the box and its contents.
Now, when you meet, exchange boxes. Open the one you’ve been given. Ask yourself who might have owned this box? Why did they save these things? Where did they get them?
Now that you’ve had a glimpse into their memories, write about them for 15 minutes and share with the group. Return the box you received to its original owner.
What items would the memory box of your life hold? What might someone else imagine about you if they saw it?
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