Post by Jenny
We get so busy sometimes that our lives seem less like collections of individual moments and more like a chaotic blur. But when we slow down, we can see our moments strung like beads, one after the other. Most of them are forgettable, routine. Many of them are memorable for one reason or another. And a few are so wonderful, so awful, so unexpected, so enlightening, that they are life-changing.
When I picked up the book The Moment—Wild, Poignant, Life-Changing Stories from 125 Writers and Artists, Famous & Obscure, Edited by Larry Smith (of Smith Magazine, creators of Six-Word Memoirs), I—despite the awesome title—expected essays of the “I knew I wanted to become a writer/artist when…” formula. When my fifth-grade teacher praised my essay. When the newspaper used one of my photographs. When I finally got an article published...
But these essays blow that formula out of the water. The titular moments do include encounters with inspirational people—teachers, journalists, John Updike, Allen Ginsberg, Oprah. But they also include a drunk crash on an ATV; the fear of flying; parenting of biological, adopted, and foster children; racism; Nunsense; addiction; strippers; a suitcase full of rodents; a moth in the car…a full 125 of them, each unique.
At first, I thought, well, many of these people are writers, but what do their big moments—sometimes hilarious, often quite touching—really have to do with writing? But I as I read more, I realized the connection was that every moment described in this book was worth writing about. Even if it was not about writing.
And that is what writers do. We write about lives, real or imagined. We write about the moments that change us for better or worse. We pay attention, we collect these little sparkling beads and try to string them together in a way that makes sense, that has meaning, that might help someone else along the way.
I have never been ambushed by the Taliban (thankfully) or had to take down the license plate of a drive-by shooter (again, thankfully). But I like to think that the special moments in my life have made me, or will someday make me, a better writer.
Have you had a moment change your life? Did it inspire your writing?